"At first you were a dream, then a reality, now you're just a memory."
I was talking briefly with Mr. Sexy about the "ex-files" and the presents that you've received from past relationships and where they end up. What is one to do with them?
I'm a sentimental person, I keep a diary, photographs and even receipts of some events so, naturally I will keep gifts/cards and etc... And I have to admit, I've accumulated some pretty nice things over the years which are still useful to me. Mr Sexy, on the other hand, said that overall, the bad outweighed the good and there's no need to keep them.
I suddenly felt defensive, it's not like I keep them because I miss those people and still harbour feelings for them. It's just good stuff. Maybe it just made me look like a super materialistic and superficial person, but I know that my relationships weren't all bad. But... If any of my relationships had ended badly, I'd most likely throw away/burn/use them as ammunition, depending on how I felt at the time.
All the events (both romantic and non romantic) that have happened to me so far has shaped me into the person that I am today, and I'm pretty content with my life and how it's turning out. I would still keep my pretty possessions and reminisce, but I know it's all in the past for a reason. I'm not the type to try and revive a broken relationship or even keep in touch with those people.
"The best thing about memories... Is making them".
Love,
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Oh, and who is Mr. Sexy? Well, I'll start by saying that he's tall, not that dark, handsome and plays the guitar.
Need I say more?
