Love Letter

Dear future husband,

I don’t believe we’ve met yet, perhaps we have and I don’t know at this time... but for this scenario, let’s pretend we don’t know each other. 

I’m currently 28 and (im)patiently waiting for your arrival. I wonder about how and where we’ll meet, but I’m sure that when we do, we’ll re-tell it for years to come. 

I’m working on a few things at the moment, trying to keep busy until you come for me (that’s what she said), so hopefully by the time you meet me...:

I’ll have passed my driving test -another mode of transport for me and all the better for me to come and see you, my dear. 

I’ll be better at tae-kwon-do- all the better to protect and defend you, my dear. 

I’ll be salsa-ing away - all the better practice for our awesome first dance, my dear. 

You should know, that I have a lot of love to give- I have just been waiting for the right person to come into my life. I do hope you’ll hurry along soon, because I can’t wait to get started on my next chapter. 

In the meanwhile, I’ll be here... 

I can’t wait to meet you

Love, 

A Story...

A boy and a girl were playing together. The boy had a collection of marbles. The girl had some sweets with her.
The boy told the girl that he will give her all his marbles in exchange for her sweets. The girl agreed. The boy kept the biggest and the most beautiful marble aside and gave the rest to the girl. The girl gave him all her sweets as she had promised.
That night, the girl slept peacefully. But the boy couldn’t sleep as he kept wondering if the girl had hidden some sweets from him the way he had hidden his best marble.

Moral of the story:
If you don’t give your hundred percent in a relationship, you’ll always keep doubting if the other person has given his/her hundred percent...This is applicable for any relationship like love, employer-employee relationship etc., Give your hundred percent to everything you do and sleep peacefully.

Easy to say, hard to do! - What do you think?
Love,

How To...

Live Again (after a break-up).

So things didn't turn out the way you were hoping.
That person wasn't who you thought they were.
You've broken up and now feel lonely, lost (and betrayed).
And although it feels as if you are completely and utterly alone, isolated in all your heart break and hurt... If it helps, you aren't the only one. 

Let's go through this together.

Introducing "the Five Stages of Loss and Grief" by Kubler-Ross. Although it was originally intended to be used towards the subject of death/dying, it can be applied to almost any situation. 

In this case we will use it to heal ourselves after a break up.

Now follow me on this, these thoughts may have run through your head at some point;

1). Denial: "There's no possible effin way that happened... Did it? Maybe I'm imagining it..."

2). Anger: "I'm gonna kill that mo-fo a**hole!!" 

3). Bargaining: "Maybe if I change then..."
 

4). Depression: "My life is over. What's the point of living without love...?"

5). Acceptance: "Ok... Dodged a bullet there, it's time to get out of this funk". 

I think it's important to note that there is no particular time line specified for each stage. Some may spend longer dwelling over one point, than other people and that's perfectly OK. We all need time to heal. However, I advise that you surround yourself with people who actually do love and care about you to help you move on. 

Taking into account that this was meant to help counsel those left behind by their loved ones... I found this tagline that came along with it:

"Because Love never dies."

So don't give up! Let love live on! 

Love,