Deal Breakers & Sealers

So you think you've found the girl/guy of your dreams...
And not a day passes without an image of their face appearing in your mind...
The wind seems to rustle and whisper their name...
It's become an addiction. [You have a specific somebody in mind as you're reading this,right?!]
You've become obsessed.
-But no fear.

Well done.
You've succeeded the task of finding somebody.
But now, how do you proceed from here?

Be careful my friend... tread carefully.

Here are some light pieces of advice for YOUR personal use:


Deal breakers:

• Dissing your ex.[ Potentially bad because: a) You don't want to make it sound like a competition and b) Indicates that ONE DAY you could be talking about the *current* individual the same way one day. -Not good]
  

• "Playing" - Because if your date walks and talks like a player... Chances are, they're could be...a player! [Look out for: cliched lines, pushing for intimacy]

• Clingy-ness ["hi... Just checking to see if you got my last message? No? Ok. Call me!] Rule of three can be applied here (MAXIMUM) if no reply? Benefit of doubt and consider moving on.

Deal sealers

• Common courtesy- [P's and Q's, Holding doors open, laughing at the bad jokes xD]
  
• Calling when you say you will [applies to both genders- sending simple txt messages "Good night" :) - such a sealer!]
• Being honest [I.e. If you're seeing more than one person, let them know.]
  
• Remembering things about them [Favourite movie genres/ice-cream/food etc]
  
• Hugs! [Just do it. People need to hug more often!]
  

You could be holding your dream gal/guy in your arms soon!!
So good luck!!
Have some fun out there and most importantly:

Be cool!!- i.e. Be yourself! [In small quantities]

Love,